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Friday, December 13, 2019

I Fail To Understand

I actually fail to understand the human mindset over several topics. One of them is most recent to me.

So I am a woman in my mid-30s and have a usually busy work-life. I discovered an ideal time to go for a walk and that happened to be around 9.30pm pm to 11.00pm, after which I would come home and sleep off for yet another busy day ahead.

Now, a friendly elderly person told me this was 'bad idea because 'I am unmarried...single...and walking at that hour...so the so-called society/samaj is going to judge me (my character) based on this'. 
REALLY?????????????????

The samaj doesn't mind when I go to a pub with my friends/colleagues and come home at 1am. But they mind if I want to go for a walk at 9.30pm and sit in the Kali Mata temple to rest, before I get home. 

I fail to understand what this so called samaj comprises of and what exactly do they want to derive by such petty mindedness. Is it full of people who can't see others happy? Or is it just the jealous people who feel bad when others do what they couldn't do in their lives?

In the year 2019...about to be 2020 in a matter of days, are will still so sick? 
Why does anyone have to be surprised if I'm single? 
Yes I am, but I'm not ready to mingle (like someone commented). 
Yes I am single, but I'm not sad that I haven't found the right partner in life. 
Yes I'm single and I absolutely DO NOT need people to advise me on how to get hooked, nor tell me ways to impress that annoying samaj, which means nothing at all.